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How to... Remember People's Names
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Remembering people's names needs a slightly
different approach from all the others explained so far in this
section. The techniques used, though, are quite simple.
You'll find these tools helpful:
The Link Method
The Roman Room Mnemonic
Using the Tools
1. Face association
Examine a person's face discreetly when you are introduced. Try to
find an unusual feature, whether ears, hairline, forehead,
eyebrows, eyes, nose, mouth, chin, complexion, etc.
Create an association between that characteristic, the face, and
the name in your mind. The association may be to link the person
with someone else you know with the same name. Alternatively it
may be to associate a rhyme or image of the name with the person's
face or defining feature.
2. Repetition
When you are introduced, ask for the person to repeat their name.
Use the name yourself as often as possible (without overdoing
it!). If it is unusual, ask how it is spelled or where it is comes
from, and if appropriate, exchange cards. Keep in mind that the
more often you hear and see the name, the more likely it is to
sink in.
Also, after you have left that person's company, review the name
in your mind several times. If you are particularly keen you might
decide to write it down and make notes.
Summary
The methods suggested for remembering names are fairly simple and
obvious, but are useful. Association either with images of a name
or with other people can really help. Repetition and review help
to confirm your memory.
An important thing to stress is practice, patience, and
progressive improvement.
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different approach from all the others explained so far in this
section. The techniques used, though, are quite simple.
You'll find these tools helpful:
The Link Method
The Roman Room Mnemonic
Using the Tools
1. Face association
Examine a person's face discreetly when you are introduced. Try to
find an unusual feature, whether ears, hairline, forehead,
eyebrows, eyes, nose, mouth, chin, complexion, etc.
Create an association between that characteristic, the face, and
the name in your mind. The association may be to link the person
with someone else you know with the same name. Alternatively it
may be to associate a rhyme or image of the name with the person's
face or defining feature.
2. Repetition
When you are introduced, ask for the person to repeat their name.
Use the name yourself as often as possible (without overdoing
it!). If it is unusual, ask how it is spelled or where it is comes
from, and if appropriate, exchange cards. Keep in mind that the
more often you hear and see the name, the more likely it is to
sink in.
Also, after you have left that person's company, review the name
in your mind several times. If you are particularly keen you might
decide to write it down and make notes.
Summary
The methods suggested for remembering names are fairly simple and
obvious, but are useful. Association either with images of a name
or with other people can really help. Repetition and review help
to confirm your memory.
An important thing to stress is practice, patience, and
progressive improvement.
